April 7, 2019

You're not happy at work? You're not happy in your relationship? Your finances are in a bad way? Then perhaps you need to get off of the pity potty and take responsibility for your life?

We live in a blame culture, where people immediately look to blame others for their...

April 7, 2019

The phone rang and I immediately knew something was wrong. My ex partner had never called at that time of day before and I instinctively knew there was a problem.

I answer the phone and my worst fears were realised.

“I’m at the hospital, Sophie is in surgery! 

Sophie is...

April 7, 2019

Ok, so I have a question for you all.

I’m an ex soldier and a straight talker. I don’t believe in beating around the bush, so I tend to be quite direct. If I think you’re a cockwomble, I'll tell you you’re a cockwomble.

I swear, (an ex soldier that swears - shocker!) not...

Social media posts about domestic abuse, create a lot of heated debate. These debates usually end up with at least one person, crossing the line and becoming verbally abusive, attacking the post author, who is usually of the opposite sex. I've now blocked four people o...

Hello my fabulous internet friends and welcome to another blog. You can also hear this via my podcast.

So, this morning, I came across an article that was headed, "Five minutes early is on time." "On time is late!"

Now, that resonated with me as we were always taught in...

April 18, 2018

Sadly, around 1640 people die every day in the UK. And in 2015, we saw the biggest jump in yearly deaths for almost 50 years.

Whilst it's difficult to calculate your odds of dying today, non of us really know if we will see tomorrow.

So, why is it, when our lives cou...

April 11, 2018


I want to start by saying this - YOU and YOU alone, are where you are because of the choices that YOU have made in life. If you don’t like where you’re at, change it. You got yourself into this, you CAN get yourself out.

Now that I’ve clea...

January 21, 2018

So, almost a year on from my last post (I know, I know!) my life has changed so much, that I think it's an interesting example of how quickly and dramatically things can change for all of us.

A year ago, I was living in a large three bedroom detached house in a lovely E...

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